[ My Wife and her life at 80, as I see.]

Yes, that's my Wife. Now 65 years spent with me and has all the charm of her with all the grace that she keeps with all the friends of hers and mine she knows all of my friends (I don't know many of my friends wife's) is her post marriage social lady's group and the family clubs etc... where she was the youngest of all lady's made her learn with senior lady's that helped me look after my job and her job to keep the post of her as family inchage as she looked after me also with most loving care and faithful and also as hard working wife.

I took up blogging after my daughter gave her huge computer table with her Desktop Computer and I started this blog in 1979 when I had a B & W camera so many pictuers are in B & W.

The pictures of family pooja photos that my wife worshiped on Yearly "Navaratri Day" the famous Mysore Royal Festival that is more than 410 years which goes on even in 2023 is gift compulsory that is given to my wife by her Father & Mother when she said good bye to her father,mother,sister & brothers who was with her all the 19 years of her 'LIFE' as the youngest of the family.

THE Light that she keeps lighting on 'Deepavali Day' A day celebrated all over over STATE - Karnataka the old "Royal Family also celebrate" and we celebrate by lighting a small oil Lamp in front of our home"

The "Harald Car" of the one popular small car which was at that time once's fancy,was my fancy:I purchased, after I was promoted from my position as 'Spinning Superintendent'to "Production Manager" in the same mills which was a NTC Mills unit the largest Mill in Karnataka. This Car was used when ever I went with my wife and my little son on a Holoday with my friend Sri.Dilip Kumar Mahalnobis and his wife. My wife and Son are with them in the picture below.

In the picture below is: 

One of our Best Vegitarian Hotel was this in Bangalore. This was also very near to our mills HO and my wife's parents home and my own home little more distance from this hotel but in the west, Bangalore's populous Brigade Road in the east was my favorite restaurant which was run by a China man & his people.(Now no more)

[ Steve Jobs Said Your Overall Happiness in Life Really Comes Down to Asking 4 Simple Questions: ]

The co-founder of Apple delivered these words to a newly minted class of Stanford University graduates in 2005. Not long before the commencement, Jobs had been diagnosed with pancreatic cancer and was given between three and six months to live.

Facing his own mortality had impressed upon him the importance of living the best possible life, and it was a message he passed on to the new graduates, and to the rest of the world watching.

3 questions you should be asking

Jobs's message gave us plenty of things to chew on about what truly matters in our own lives. And to this day, whenever I watch that commencement speech, it forces me to look in the mirror and ask myself some really powerful, Jobs-inspired questions that, I hope, you will ask yourself.

In the face of his looming death, something powerful shifted inside Jobs. He began to live each day as if it was his last--because it may have been. Thinking about the limited amount of time you and I have left on this earth isn't meant to be a downer. On the contrary, it empowers us to use that precious time in the most meaningful way possible.

Jobs called facing his death "the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life." Almost everything, he said -- our fears, failures, and our pride -- "fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important."

  2. "If today were the last day of my life, 
would I want to do what I am about to do today?"

This is a question that Jobs said he asked himself 
every day -- while literally standing in front of his 
mirror -- after being diagnosed with his terminal illness. 

Jobs said, "Whenever the answer has been no for too many 
days in a row, I know I need to change something." If I asked 
myself that same question every day during this stage of my life 
and career, the answer would be a resounding "yes!" I say this 
because I'm doing what I have passionately been called to do and 
I'm living out my purpose.

I urge you to do the same. Be willing to confront yourself and 
ask this same question when you start your day. Pay attention to 
what's coming up for you as you check in with your feelings. 
If you're being true to yourself, it can be frightening to admit 
you're not living the life you want, but it's the only way to pivot 
toward the pursuit of something new--something that may be your true calling.

3. Am I doing what I love?

As Jobs explains, living someone else's life is wasting your own. 
Instead, he urges you to find the role you were meant to fill.

   You've got to find what you love. ... Your work is going to fill a 
   large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is 
   to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great 
   work is to love what you do.

Doing what we love gives us purpose, which fuels our drive to get up 
in the morning and, in the words of Warren Buffett, "tap dance to work." 
Research published in Harvard Business Review concluded that to be 
fully engaged and happy, people need to feel as if their work matters 
and that their contributions help to achieve something important.

When people find purpose in their work, and they love 
what they do, it will not only improve that person's happiness, 
it will boost their productivity. To end on a hopeful note, 
if you don't know what it is you love to do, then.

I urge your first step to be finding out what it is you should be doing. Don't just take my word for it; it's what Steve Jobs would want you to do as well

Source:
https://www.inc.com/

[ 11 - Second 2 Fifth ]

My son now,was two years of age and started taking no sooner he was 1 plus like a child,since my wife was not knowing the local language Tamil and as I was used to speak mostly in English,it was the language of our conversation at home.
My son could only learn the harsh language in our mother tongue that I used to say to my wife at times which he picked up:
Hoge - meaning go away.
Made - meaning do it.
Baree - meaning come on.
He picked this up as his harsh language and used to use them all at a time:
Sharry - Hoge,Made,Bareee against his mother.
Calling her mom he could not as he used to hear her mother always called by me as Sharry,he used to o the same.
As a child of just under two years of age he disliked darkness.It was a problem to sit in a movie theater the moment lights were switched off he would start crying.
Once we made the gate keeper to tell him in Tamil:
Chumma Okaaru illenna arasi sack le potu kati kondu po iduve,meaning keep quite or else I will put you in a rice bag and take you away.
This did not work well as he came to know no one came for such things when other baby's were crying.
We had to keep a boy to take him and keep going around the city in any bus and come at the time the show ending,he enjoyed going in buses for any period of time.